Hi,
I'm a new user, just registered, first post.
I've been reading a little about bankruptcy/IVA and I'm looking for some advice.
I'm currently struggling with repayments on credit cards (circa £16k) and a £2k overdraft, my car costs me £340 a month and is in about £3.5k negative equity (worth £9k owe £12.5k on finance) and I'm spending about £400-500 a month more than I have coming in. up until this point my girlfriend has been supporting me and I've been living rent free and eating her food for around a year as well as her making up the difference for me with dinners, petrol etc.
I just got served notice at work that my job is being made redundant and I'm currently in consultation with my employer, that was the last straw in our relationship and my girlfriend is kicking me out so I'm contemplating moving back in with my mum which at 30 is a big dent to my ego.
I want to do right by my girlfriend/ex and we've worked out I owe her around £12-13k up to this point, if i take out an unsecured personal loan for that value while I'm employed then give her the money and file for BR after I'm redundant will they chase her for the money?
I have little in the way of assets, we live in rented accomodation but that's kinda irrelevant as I'll be moving in with my mum right? i have an amp and speakers, an xbox, a few games and dvd's and some clothes...possibly a tv, it's not decided yet, if i take that stuff to my mum's is it fair game for them to take it? I contemplated leaving it at a friends house and saying I left with nothing?
I really don't know what to do...any information you can give me would be greatly appreciated?


